I'm going to write today what I intended to write last Sunday from the Siebers' residence, because the fact that I was at their house on a Sunday underscored the key point underlying the point that I was planning on making. In other words, I was at their house and not at church. I miss having a church like ubc. This is a lament, not a whine, I promise. I grew up going to church, albeit not always willingly. Oftentimes, I wouldn't want to go, and my mom would force me to go, so I'd put on shorts to rebel. She would tell me that I couldn't go to church in shorts. I agreed with her, and suggested that I stay home. So, she reluctantly let me wear shorts, and I gained some kind of victory there. It's funny that I did this, because when I look back, I loved going to church as a kid. I got to see all my friends and play in the gym and win at Bible drill. By the time we got into the eighth grade, Mark and I and others were already starting to emerge as leaders among our church peers, and I was certainly super-involved. Then came college, and I needed a break from church. This break lasted until the second semester of my sophomore year, when I started going to ubc. Over the years, I got pretty involved there, too. I loved to get there early (most mornings) and to stay late. Now, here's the key, I made my non-church plans around my church plans. I wouldn't go out of town for the weekend, unless I could be back by Sunday morning. I once drove non-stop by myself from Florida to make it back just in time for church (I almost died that morning by sleeping at the wheel). And this is what I miss...Having something in a church that I am committed to enough to put it ahead of other things, not just out of obligation, but because I look forward to it.
Well, we went to Bel Air Presbyterian last night, and we really liked it. Granted, it was different from their normal service, but I got a good initial vibe, which has me rooting for the church the next time we go. Here's hoping...